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HOW TO OFFICIATE A WEDDING : 

Curious how to officiate a wedding? Writing the components, understanding marriage laws, deciding on rituals and setup - it can quickly become overwhelming. Our comprehensive guide walks you- and your friend or family member- through it all .

You can get ordained online in minutes, but learning how to properly officiate a wedding is far more involved. Inexperienced friends or family members often feel overwhelmed with writing the ceremony, understanding marriage laws, and planning rituals. Here we’ll cover it all- from the legal aspects, to the logistic set up, to the best way to structure the ceremony and what to include, to how to be present for the big day.

HOW TO OFFICIATE A WEDDING:

Been asked to officiate and not sure where to start? Or are you a couple considering having a friend or family member officiate your ceremony?

Rev. Dawn’s Book is now available on Amazon:

So You Think You Want Your Friend To Marry You: The best way to create and officiate your first ceremony: all you need to know about content, logistics, and the law

Writing the components, understanding marriage laws, deciding on rituals and setup - it can quickly become overwhelming. Our comprehensive guide walks you- and your friend or family member- through it all .

Getting ordained online takes just minutes, but learning how to properly officiate a wedding is far more involved. Inexperienced friends or family members often feel overwhelmed with writing the ceremony, understanding marriage laws, and planning rituals. Here we’ll cover it all- from the legal aspects, to the logistic set up, to the best way to structure the ceremony and what to include, to how to be present for the big day.

Together, we got this!

So You Think You Want Your Friend to Marry You  helps your friend or family member learn and connect with all the essential skills, confidence, tools, resources, and legal requirements needed to lead a wedding ceremony.

“So often I hear of couples asking a friend or family member to officiate because they want something heartfelt from someone who knows them closely,” says Rev. Dawn. “Absolutely! But once diving in, the couple and their chosen person often realize there’s more to consider then that. How does one actually craft a ceremony, what does it need, how much should they do together, what needs to happen leading up to the ceremony and on the day of, how do we make sure the legal aspects are properly covered? The stakes are high, and it can feel overwhelming- that’s why I put together this guide.”


Yes, you can become ordained online quickly,  but learning how to officiate a wedding with grace and professionalism requires more than a certificate. This course offers a thorough walkthrough, equipping officiants with the knowledge to handle all aspects of the ceremony;


If you’re an engaged couple considering asing a friend or family member to marry you (contratulations), chances are you may have been asking yourself some of these questions

  • Can a friend officiate a wedding/ can our friend marry us/ can a family member officiate a wedding/can I officiate a wedding?

  • Do I need public speaking experience to marry someone?

  • Is it legal for a friend to officiate a wedding

  • How to register as wedding officiant

  • Is online ordination legal?

  • Should we have a friend officiate our wedding?

If you’re a friend or family member who’s been asked to officiate a wedding, chances are you’ve been searching for some of these things::

  • What does a wedding officiant do? 

  • What are the requirements to be a wedding officiant?

  • Get ordained to officiate wedding

  • How  to officiate a wedding

  • How do I write a ceremony?

  • Help, it’s my first time officiating a wedding?

  • I’ve been asked to officiate a wedding what do I do?

  • How to officiate a wedding legally

  • How do I find a wedding ceremony script?

  • What does a wedding ceremony outline look like?

  • Find a sample wedding ceremony

  • What does the officiant say at a wedding

This simple, inexpensive, but comprehensive guide: 

  • Explores important questions about your potential choices’ readiness and capability, from writing and delivering the ceremony to handling unexpected issues and ensuring legal requirements are met.

  • Outlines how to create a balanced wedding ceremony that includes classic traditions, personal touches, and elements that engage guests. 

  • Covers the logistics of the ceremony planning meeting before your wedding and guides you on what questions to ask to ensure everyone is on the same page and that your ceremony runs smoothly.

  • Provides an outline for a wedding ceremony,

  • Helps you plan the flow, from processional to recessional

In recent years, there's been a notable trend towards having a friend or family member officiate weddings for a more intimate and personalized experience. Many couples want the personal connection and familiarity that comes with having someone close to them leading their ceremony, however, asking an inexperienced friend to officiate brings its own challenges. 

While the idea of having a friend marry you sounds appealing, many soon realize their chosen friend has no clue where to start.

This guide provides  the tools your friend or family member needs to confidently and legally marry their loved ones. Plus, Rev. Dawn is available to consult with you DIRECTLY at an hourly rate to ensure all three of you create the most personal, unique, memorable ceremony imaginable.

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So You Think You Want Your Friend To Marry You: The best way to create and officiate your first ceremony: all you need to know about content, logistics, and the law 

An officiant of over 1000 ceremonies shares all the content, inspiration, legal aspects, and logistics you need to know to officiate your first ceremony.

Congratulations, dear couples! If you're planning to have someone who knows and cares about you marry you, I love that for you-- but do you know where to start?

This guide provides  the tools your friend or family member needs to confidently and legally marry their loved ones.


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